I’ve Gained 26 Pounds… And Counting

I just had my regular doctor’s visit and holy smokes… I was shocked when I stepped on that scale. While I only gained 1.5-2 pounds last month, I gained 5 lbs in the past 2 two weeks, pushing my grand total to 26 pounds gained. Ugh…

Despite the fact that my doctor is not concerned even a little, I can’t help but feel a little bad about how high that number is getting. I will admit that with all the family in town, we did a lot of eating out, which translates into not-so-healthy eating. BUT, for the most part, we eat really well and I’ve still been working out. I think I really just need to buckle down. Even when I go out to eat, I need to be sure to pick healthy options. Oy.

Why couldn’t I be one of those people who gain like 16 lbs? I would have really appreciated that. Oh well I guess.

Between that and getting in a fight with my parents this morning – always so fun – I was just about in tears at the doctor’s office. I think the moral of the story is that I need to avoid mean people and scales. That will likely help.

 

Symptoms

Besides the shocking weight gain, things are looking good. My big ole’ Buddah belly is measuring at about 31 cm, which is perfect. You’re supposed to measure in centimeters the number of weeks you are… ie: I am 31 weeks and my belly is 31 cm.

In more fun news, we’ve officially received most of our packages in the mail from our big Kohl’s purchase (and maybe a couple others). This is what we came home to last night:

Just a few packages!

Just a few packages!

Take that, Christmas!

Take that, Christmas!

The packages contained TONS of 65% off goodies (I love having friends that work at cool places), but the best were obviously the baby monitor and stroller! The baby monitor is currently being charged, so we weren’t able to play too much, but the stroller is put together and even got a little usage!

Baby Toby testing out the new ride.

Baby Toby testing out the new ride.

Oy. I can't handle it... he's just SO cute.

Oy. I can’t handle it… he’s just SO cute.

 

Baby Photos

I am a total photo person, and as such, have been thinking a lot about newborn photos and the very cute and fun “month by month” photos once our baby arrives. In terms of professional photos, I did a LOT of researching and contacting and ended up finding a company called, Pics by Nic, thanks to my friend, Katie, and another friend from college. Her photos are adorable and she is SO inexpensive, it’s amazing.

Most of the quotes I had been getting were about $350-450 JUST for a newborn photo shoot. That was absolutely not an option for me. Nicole, the owner/photographer with Pics by Nic, has a “first year of life” package that includes a newborn, 3-month, 6-month, 9-month, 12-month and fall pumpkin photo shoot all for… wait for it… $375! That’s about $60/photo session! Pretty awesome, huh?

Here are some of her photos…

Tiny baby boop. Pics by Nic.

Tiny baby boop. Pics by Nic.

How cute is that little face?? Pics by Nic.

How cute is that little face?? Pics by Nic.

Sleeping monkey. Pics by Nic.

Sleeping monkey. Pics by Nic.

Wrinkly baby boo. Pics by Nic.

Wrinkly baby boo. Pics by Nic.

Chubby cheeks. Pics by Nic.

Chubby cheeks. Pics by Nic.

Oy. I love her pics. So cute, huh?

Anyway, the other thing I’ve been thinking about regarding photos is the “month by month” photos that I’ll take at home. I’ve found a bunch of cute options and really think I want to somehow incorporate Toby the Wonder Pup. Any opinions on which style you think is best (ie: using the little blocks – see below, or the onesies with the month sticker)??? Help me decide!

Month blocks from Etsy...

Month blocks from Etsy…

More month blocks.

More month blocks.

I was thinking I could do something like this, but instead of a stuffed animal, I could have Toby next to her.

I was thinking I could do something like this, but instead of a stuffed animal, I could have Toby next to her.

Some other stuffed animal examples.

Some other stuffed animal examples.

Here is one with a chalkboard that's kind of cute.

Here is one with a chalkboard that’s kind of cute.

Baby on a chair... I think he or she has the month stickers.

Baby on a chair… I think he or she has the month stickers.

This is super cute with a chalkboard wall... but who has a chalkboard wall? (We used to, but not in our current house.)

This is super cute with a chalkboard wall… but who has a chalkboard wall? (We used to, but not in our current house.)

This one is super cute... uses balloons to mark the number of months the baby is. Cute, huh?

This one is super cute… uses balloons to mark the number of months the baby is. Cute, huh?

Chair and a chalkboard... another cute one.

Chair and a chalkboard… another cute one.

This feels like it takes too many props... but it's cute!

This feels like it takes too many props… but it’s cute!

So, thoughts??

Symptoms

Again, I’m feeling pretty damn tired. I’m starting to think that it has very little to do with how much sleep I get and more to do with the fact that I’m pregnant. Imagine that! Regardless, I keep on keepin’ on 🙂

Last night I went to the baseball game with a few friends. We technically got the tickets through my work, but it wasn’t too much of a work event. As we were walking out of the game, a random stranger said to me, “You need to get to the hospital immediately!” Well, screw you, dude! I do not think I look THAT big. Anyway, here are a few pictures from the game…

The gang in a giant glove... an obvious must-have photo!

The gang in a giant glove… an obvious must-have photo!

Me & the hubs! He's so cute.

Me & the hubs! He’s so cute.

Ashley & I posing with Bernie Brewer! Check out that big, round belly!

Ashley & I posing with Bernie Brewer! Check out that big, round belly!

Also, check out Toby’s new haircut… such a stud muffin.

My sweet pumpkin!

My sweet pumpkin!

That Whole Birthing Thing Looks Hard…

Last night we had our first birthing class. As I mentioned yesterday, the class was part one of a two-part class with our hospital, and we also have a two-part, 8-hour class with our Doula.

So, what did we learn? Oy. Well, the gist is that it’s potentially a VERY long process that is going to be a TOTAL mind/body challenge. I’m trying to stay very positive about the whole experience. From what I’ve read, going in with a positive outlook can really change your experience.  But, I’m not going to lie… I teared up three times during the 18-minute video of one couple’s natural birth / labor story. It’s just so intense. I feel like I just need to keep reminding myself of these key points…

  1. There are hundreds of thousands of people around the world powering through the same experience at any given time.
  2. It will end and it will end with the birth of our sweet girl. It’s not a pain or ailment that will last forever. Hopefully I’ll be able to hold onto this perspective.
  3. Throughout the entire labor, I will be working WITH my baby and with my body to deliver our girl.
  4. I can do this. Women’s bodies are made for this. It’s the most natural thing in the world. So much so that once your baby is born and placed on you skin-to-skin, a mother’s body will change temperature to help regulate the baby’s temp. For example, if the baby’s temperature is too cold, the momma’s will warm up to warm the baby. That’s how natural the process is.
  5. Like all the other women who have powered through this same experience, I am a superhero.

Symptoms

I’m feeling a touch sleep-deprived and my back is quite achy. Other than those two things, I’m feeling pretty good! I have it in my mind that we’re so close to the finish line, and am hoping that this mindset doesn’t turn the final 9.5 weeks into what feels like 20. As of right now, I’m thankful for the time we have to finish all the little things that still need to get done… BUT, if she were to come early, I’m also quite confident that we’d be okay!

Have I mentioned that I’m SO excited to meet our girl?

 

 

Holy Packed Weekend

Ya know those weekends where you need a weekend from the weekend? Yup! That’s where I’m at. Although, I can’t complain too much because it’s in the 70’s and sunny today. Too bad i’m back at work.

Anyway, the crazily busy weekend…

Friday night we went to Mark’s dad and step mom’s house for a nice dinner and to hang out with Mark’s sister and her girlies. They played with Toby the Wonderpup and we all brainstormed baby names. No conclusion was made except for the fact that I have a lot of name rules and names I just don’t like. The struggle continues.

On Saturday morning, I went with my mom and sis for manis. I chose a nice, easter-egg-inspired look.

On Saturday morning, I went with my mom and sis for manis. I chose a nice, easter-egg-inspired look.

Post-mani, it was time to head to my brother-in-law's work to go through THREE PALLETS worth of baby gear...

Post-mani, it was time to head to my brother-in-law’s work to go through THREE PALLETS worth of baby gear…

First pallet coming off the shelf...

First pallet coming off the shelf…

HOLY BABY GEAR!

HOLY BABY GEAR!

The guards.

The guards.

More gear coming down...

More gear coming down…

Mini bassinet!

Mini bassinet!

Our official tester...

Our official tester…

Gabby approved!

Gabby approved!

Once we packed up about a pallet and half's worth of gear into the conversion van, it was time to bring it to the house and unload...

Once we packed up about a pallet and half’s worth of gear into the conversion van, it was time to bring it to the house and unload…

Baby gear takes over.

Baby gear takes over.

That's a lot of stuff...

That’s a lot of stuff…

And of course, once it was in the house, we had to unload! Thank goodness for my sis, who helped me weed through a bazillion boxes of baby clothes!

And of course, once it was in the house, we had to unload! Thank goodness for my sis, who helped me weed through a bazillion boxes of baby clothes!

Once my sister and her fam left, we had our second set of visitors for the day! Mark's sis and nieces came for a slumber party. NOTE: These faces are a direct result of the captivating movie, The Last Unicorn.

Once my sister and her fam left, we had our second set of visitors for the day! Mark’s sis and nieces came for a slumber party. NOTE: These faces are a direct result of the captivating movie, The Last Unicorn.

Sunday morning snuggles before the kids and Mark headed to the zoo and I went to make returns and purchases at BuyBuy Baby!

Sunday morning snuggles before the kids and Mark headed to the zoo and I went to make returns and purchases at BuyBuy Baby!

That evening, Marky and I went to dinner at my mom and dad’s house and then we all (Mark, his sister, the nieces, and I) met up again at our house for more play time and organization time.

This morning, the girls helped Mark give Toby an impromptu foot cleaning in the sink. It's still a bit muddy outside.

This morning, the girls helped Mark give Toby an impromptu foot cleaning in the sink. It’s still a bit muddy outside.

Marky, Babyboo and I with Emily this morning!

Marky, Babyboo and I with Emily this morning!

Symptoms

I’ve been feeling pretty great. The little babe has been in the head-down position for the past couple weeks; however, yesterday she seemed to have flipped into the breech position. HOWEVER… this morning it really seemed to feel like she was flipping. I’m not 100% sure at this point. I know she still has a couple weeks before it actually matters, but even from a comfort perspective, it’s way more comfortable when she’s head down. I don’t love those tiny feet tapping on my bladder.

Other than that, I’m pretty much all done with all the purchasing. I found some awesome nursing bras from Target that seem to fit really well. They’re supportive without being restrictive and have no wire. Here are the bras. I got the black and white polka dot one… because it’s adorable! I also picked up a couple of these nursing tanks. So, I think I’m pretty much set to pack my hospital bag this week.

Also, I think I mentioned last week that my AMAZING friend works for Kohl’s Corporate and was able to get us a SERIOUS discount on just about EVERYTHING left on our registry. Everything from swaddles and bibs to our stroller, baby monitors, diaper pail and hamper. And here’s the fun part… There happened to be a special going last week, so she got 65% off! Our total spent from $660 and total saved was around $930! Talk about a deal! We ordered 25 items ranging in price from $9.99 to $519.99 (full price). Woo! I love deals.

Needless to say, I will be running home from work daily to check for packages. SUCH excitement.

One more little tidbit… tonight we have our childbirthing class at the hospital. We are taking this class (6 hours total, split between two days) and a private class at our house with our Doula (8 hours total, split between two days). Hopefully we’ll learn a few things 🙂

 

30 Weeks… 3/4 of the Way Through! (April 18, 2014)

30 Weeks (April 18, 2014). I can't believe in 10 short weeks, this little lady nugget will be here! Guess we should probably get going on naming her, huh? As for the belly... it's definitely growing, as is she! She's about 15.7" and 3 lbs! Holy smokes... I remember when I thought an ounce was big. Can't wait to meet our little squirmer.

30 Weeks (April 18, 2014). I can’t believe in 10 short weeks, this little lady nugget will be here! Guess we should probably get going on naming her, huh? As for the belly… it’s definitely growing, as is she! She’s about 15.7″ and 3 lbs! Holy smokes… I remember when I thought an ounce was big. Can’t wait to meet our little squirmer.

Both animals tried to join!

Both animals tried to join!

Cuteness at work yesterday... that's Toby's, "you're eating something I want" face.

Cuteness at work yesterday… that’s Toby’s, “you’re eating something I want” face.

Toby rocking his baby sister's fedora. Looking adorable as ever...

Toby rocking his baby sister’s fedora. Looking adorable as ever…

The Changing Table Dresser Situation Resolved

For those of you who don’t remember the dresser debacle, the long and short of it is that in the process of building the dresser, my husband and I messed up the dresser table top. We called the company and told them the piece was broken (among other pieces) and thankfully they had no problem sending us some new pieces.

So, after waiting at least a couple weeks to finally finish our dresser, the top arrived and the dang thing was finally finished. THEN… I could focus on decorating. So I used the 3M Command “Damage-Free” Hanging Strips to hang some picture frames above the dresser and one came crashing down right on top of the damn thing. The result…

A big (relatively speaking)  old dent on my brand new dresser!

A big (relatively speaking) old dent on my brand new dresser!

I called 3M to give them a piece of my mind, which honestly has not gone very far. I’ve sent them photos and before they will do anything, I have to send them back the actual failed hanging strips. SO… that’s still a work in progress.

Meanwhile, I called South Shore, the maker of the dresser and told them that the replacement table top I received is dented. Not untrue, not totally forthcoming. Either way, the woman was SO wonderful! She put me on hold for a minute and let me know that she had issued a replacement order for the piece, which will be wrapped extra well! So HECK YES! Even if 3M continues to put me through the runner, we have a new tabletop on its way. The sanctuary is preserved another day.

One more little thing, I have to say, the dresser was NOT expensive. I want to say it was about $300. So, not garage sale cheap, but still, not expensive. We ordered the thing from WalMart. When we placed the order and even when we received the broken pieces originally (yes, some items were broken upon arrival… and some we played a hand in breaking), I was not confident in our purcahsing decision. But now, in hindsight, I’m very satisfied and it’s purely based on South Shore’s customer service. While waiting for parts to arrive isn’t fun, at least it was totally easy to keep the process moving. I’d definitely recommend South Shore to anyone looking for inexpensive furniture.

 

Symptoms

I made it to the gym last night, which was good… although my workout was a little less than enthused. I was definitely a bit sluggish, but got more into it by the end. Then, I came home, ate dinner and relaxed a bit. It was nice. Even got to read and make it in bed by 10. I’m hoping for an exact repeat tonight. I’m still feeling quite tired, so I figure a few more nights of solid sleep and I might start feeling human again.

Plus, it’s Thursday… which means tomorrow is Friday… and that means it’s the weekend! We have another fun-filled weekend. Friday we will have dinner at Mark’s dad’s house with his sister and the girlies, which will be really nice. Then, Saturday I have mani’s with my mom and sis… obviously a highlight! And then after, my sister, her hubs, Marky and I will head over to my brother-in-law’s shop to pick up the INSANE amount of baby stuff my sister has saved for us over the years. We’re talking two pallets worth of stuff. Everything from a crib mattress, baby swing and high chair to clothing in every size and style imaginable. Obviously, I am very excited to pick all the stuff up and organize.

Then Saturday night we will be babysitting for the nieces so my sister-in-law can enjoy a nice birthday dinner with Milly compliments on my hubs and I. And Sunday will likely be more organizing and maybe even a trip to Buy Buy Baby! I swear, I think after this weekend we’re going to be pretty darn set in terms of baby gear.

Which reminds me, it must be mentioned that my friend hooked us up with the best deal EVER. She works at Kohl’s and used her discount to get us 65% off of ALL our remaining registry items (or everything that Kohl’s carried). It was amazing… she is amazing!

 

Happy Passover

Typically, Mark and I celebrate Passover with my family on one night and with either his mom or dad and step mom another night. Because there are only two days in which you perform the Passover Seder (dinner), we have to skip the dinner with one side of his family each year. With this in mind, last year we volunteered to host a joint Seder with both Mark’s mom, grandpop, dad, step mom, sister, brother-in-law, nieces, and my parents…. and that’s just what we did last night!

Thankfully, both Milly (Mark’s mom) and Mark’s step mom Amy prepared almost all of the food… so really, my work was pretty limited to getting the house ready (remember, we had three house guests this weekend), preparing vegetables and a couple other little things, and playing host a bit. If you ask me, it worked out VERY well and was really a great little evening.

Here are some photos!

The table all set! Yes, there are plastic/paper dishes on that table... don't judge! 12 people is a lot for a Tuesday night :)

The table all set! Yes, there are plastic/paper dishes on that table… don’t judge! 12 people is a lot for a Tuesday night 🙂

Bright & eclectic table.

Bright & eclectic table.

The gang!

The gang!

Please ignore my giantness in this photo.

Please ignore my giantness in this photo. I’m claiming TERRIBLE angle 🙂

Mark drinking from his "goblet"... aka the kiddush cup we received as a wedding gift.

Mark drinking from his “goblet”… aka the kiddush cup we received as a wedding gift.

Goblet glory!

Goblet glory!

Mark's dad leading the Seder.

Mark’s dad leading the Seder.

Mark pretending to follow along while forking a potato :)

Mark pretending to follow along while forking a potato 🙂

The NY fam!

The NY fam!

Puppy massages.

Puppy massages.

Family portrait.

Family portrait.

Puppy love candid!

Puppy love candid!

And just for fun, my uncle sent me these great pics of the nursery… which you’ve all seen a bazillion times. But still, I love it!

My sanctuary.

My sanctuary. Ignore the unfinished changing table area…

A different angle.

A different angle.

 

Symptoms

So, tonight is the first night in probably a week or more that we don’t have any plans… and I have to say, I’m looking forward to going to the gym, heading home and getting in bed EARLY. I miss sleep! We’ve been going to bed at around midnight almost every night and getting up around 6:30. That is just not enough sleep. So, tonight, we’ll get back on track. Or at least I will… the poor husband has been SO swamped with work. Last week, he put in over 60 hours and it wasn’t nearly enough to get all of his work done. I feel bad. Poor guy.

Also, today is the third morning that the little pumpkin has had the hiccups… pretty silly. I can’t wait to kiss her.

29 Weeks, 5 Days (April 16, 2014)

29 Weeks, 5 Days (April 16, 2014). So, with all the craziness of this past week, I totally forgot to post my 29-week photo. But, here it is a few days shy of Week 30. The belly continues to grow, although, I only gained 2 lbs over the past 3 weeks! Not too shabby. The princess is now over 15 inches and weighs 2.5 lbs... well, if she's "normal size", which her parents are not... we're tiny people. Well, Mark's 5' 9".... but I'm 5' 1"... so I'm guessing she'll be pretty tiny like her momma. When the doc took my measurement, she said she was small, too! So, we'll see!

29 Weeks, 5 Days (April 16, 2014). So, with all the craziness of this past week, I totally forgot to post my 29-week photo. But, here it is a few days shy of Week 30. The belly continues to grow, although, I only gained 2 lbs over the past 3 weeks! Not too shabby. The princess is now over 15 inches and weighs 2.5 lbs… well, if she’s “normal size”, which her parents are not… we’re tiny people. Well, Mark’s 5′ 9″…. but I’m 5′ 1″… so I’m guessing she’ll be pretty tiny like her momma. When the doc took my measurement, she said she was small, too! So, we’ll see!

Growing To Do List…

So, this weekend amongst all the celebrations and family time, Mark and I also attended another baby class… this one called, “Bringing Home Baby.” While much of the information was either a bit obvious or things we had already looked into, what I did get out of the class is that I still have a lot to do.

My/our growing list…

  1. Put together our birth plan
  2. Research/Interview/Select a pediatrician
  3. Pack our hospital bag
  4. Get car seat bases installed
  5. Organize baby clothes
  6. Write thank you cards for all the amazingness from my shower
  7. Go through all of the miscellaneous items in the basement… toss what we don’t want, determine what to sell in our neighborhood’s annual garage sale, and put away the rest.
  8. Finish reading Love & Logic
  9. Finish reading Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth
  10. Buy nursing bras/post-baby clothing
  11. Make freezer meals for post-baby era
  12. PICK A NAME for this sweet, nameless baby! Oy. This one is really turning out to be a challenge.
  13. Enjoy childless times with friends and hubbers!
  14. Attend three weddings (one that I’m standing up in)
  15. Finish organizing/purchasing all of our baby stuff
  16. Get our garden ready for the spring/summer, plant, etc.

Okay, that’s all I’ve got for now. Feels kind of good to get it out there. Next step, tackling it!

Symptoms

My back is super uncomfortable today. Mostly lower back. I have the worst damn chair at work, so that could be a big reason… or because I was up late last night prepping food for our big 12-person dinner at our place tonight… or a combo. Either way, it’s a bit sore.

Other than that, I’m feeling REALLY good and excited! Baby boo continues to move around a lot… although, from what I can tell, she’s only moving from forward facing to back facing and doing the squiggle. She hasn’t seemed to flip orientation at all.

I can’t remember if I mentioned this before, but twice in the past week, I’ve felt her hiccups. I wasn’t sure what to expect when people said I would start to feel it, and I must say, it’s quite silly. She must be low, because I swear it felt like I had hiccups in my butt. It was a VERY strange sensation.

Also, it snowed yesterday and last night… WTF?? Is spring ever coming? It’s April 15th for goodness sake… bring on the sunshine!

SNEAK PEEK From the BEST Baby Shower Ever!

I don’t have many pictures or time to tell you just how amazing my weekend and my shower was, so here’s a few pictures to tide you over 🙂

Happiest girl around!

Happiest girl around!

The headband making station (pre-party)!!

The headband making station (pre-party)!!

The felt board making station (pre-party)!!

The felt board making station (pre-party)!!

 

A sample of some finished felt pieces!

A sample of some finished felt pieces!

The awesome all-natural sugar scrub my sis made for favors!

The awesome all-natural sugar scrub my sis made for favors!

The souped up nursery! Check out those quilts, the rocker, and all the other AMAZING stuff!

The souped up nursery! Check out those quilts… the bottom one knitted and crocheted by my Aunt and the top one quilted by my mom… pretty damn impressive, huh?

Baaaa... the cutest rocking sheep in his new home!

Baaaa… the cutest rocking sheep in his new home!

Baby gladiator sandals and lots of nooks!

Baby gladiator sandals and lots of nooks!

Books and the CUTEST dang bookends I've ever seen... CUSTOM MADE by my Milly!

Books and the CUTEST dang bookends I’ve ever seen… CUSTOM MADE by my Milly!

 

Toys!!

Toys!!

The reading nook with Marky's baby blankey made special by his Grandma Francis! So amazing... And check out the side table, equipped with the sleep sheep!

The reading nook with Marky’s baby blankey made special by his Grandma Francis! So amazing… And check out the side table, equipped with the sleep sheep!