That Whole Birthing Thing Looks Hard…

Last night we had our first birthing class. As I mentioned yesterday, the class was part one of a two-part class with our hospital, and we also have a two-part, 8-hour class with our Doula.

So, what did we learn? Oy. Well, the gist is that it’s potentially a VERY long process that is going to be a TOTAL mind/body challenge. I’m trying to stay very positive about the whole experience. From what I’ve read, going in with a positive outlook can really change your experience.  But, I’m not going to lie… I teared up three times during the 18-minute video of one couple’s natural birth / labor story. It’s just so intense. I feel like I just need to keep reminding myself of these key points…

  1. There are hundreds of thousands of people around the world powering through the same experience at any given time.
  2. It will end and it will end with the birth of our sweet girl. It’s not a pain or ailment that will last forever. Hopefully I’ll be able to hold onto this perspective.
  3. Throughout the entire labor, I will be working WITH my baby and with my body to deliver our girl.
  4. I can do this. Women’s bodies are made for this. It’s the most natural thing in the world. So much so that once your baby is born and placed on you skin-to-skin, a mother’s body will change temperature to help regulate the baby’s temp. For example, if the baby’s temperature is too cold, the momma’s will warm up to warm the baby. That’s how natural the process is.
  5. Like all the other women who have powered through this same experience, I am a superhero.


I’m feeling a touch sleep-deprived and my back is quite achy. Other than those two things, I’m feeling pretty good! I have it in my mind that we’re so close to the finish line, and am hoping that this mindset doesn’t turn the final 9.5 weeks into what feels like 20. As of right now, I’m thankful for the time we have to finish all the little things that still need to get done… BUT, if she were to come early, I’m also quite confident that we’d be okay!

Have I mentioned that I’m SO excited to meet our girl?



One thought on “That Whole Birthing Thing Looks Hard…

  1. Don’t worry dear. You are going to be a rock star when your sweet baby girl finally decides to arrive. You are the most prepared woman I think I know. I survived it twice 🙂 and I wasn’t nearly as prepared as you are! Bottom line… women were chosen to have babies because WE CAN DO IT!

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