One thing we’ve said from the beginning was that we were going to be strict when it came to food. No making seperate meals, no giving unhealthy options because it’s easier, etc. Well, let’s just say, that’s not the standard we were operating under these past couple of weeks.
SO, since Sunday, we’ve really been trying to get back to a good place with Charlotte. We started making her veggie shakes again, we started trying to feed her more than just her favorites, etc.
Well, last night we had turkey meatballs and spaghetti squash for dinner. First of all, it was delicious. Here’s the recipe if you’re interested. Second, INSTANTLY C was not having it. She just kept saying (and crying) no and signing that she wanted to eat.
Despite the difficulty that is watching your child cry and say she’s hungry, we stayed strong. We told her that if she wants to eat, this is what’s for dinner. This game literally went on for nearly 30-45 minutes (or so it felt) until finally Mark said, “Ok, I’m going to count to three and if you don’t want it, that’s fine. But I’m going to take you out of your chair.”
1… 2… 3…
Of course, she didn’t budge.
Mark grabbed her out of her chair and once in his arms, she pointed to the bowl of spaghetti squash and meatballs. Mark looked at me like, “should I let her have this??” I nodded.
And just like that, Charlotte ate the ENTIRE bowl and asked for more.
Unfortunately, we had already eaten the rest of it… so we started giving her other stuff. In total, Charlotte ate:
- One turkey meatball and 1/3 cup of spaghetti squash with sauce
- One piece of toast with cinnamon
- 1 large bowl of cottage cheese (apx 3/4 cup)
- Apx 1/2 cup of yogurt
- 5-10 strawberries
- 1-2 apple slices
- 1.75 cheese sticks
- Veggie shake (beets, etc)
Despite the fact that during the whole (VERY LONG) experience, one jar of salsa was spilled on the ground, my favorite little dip bowl was broken (and more red sauce was flung around the kitchen), and Charlotte technically only started eating after we said dinner was done, I’m going to call that one a win for the parents!