I realized that I never posted about “weaning” Charlie. As I’ve mentioned a million times, I absolutely loved nursing my little lady. It was SUCH precious time together and I would absolutely recommend it to anyone who has the opportunity to do so. Not to mention, as a side, that at 17 months, Charlotte has yet to need any form of antibiotic. Healthy little chickadee.
Anyway, I digress.
Up until 11 months, I nursed her 4-a million times per day (clearly a million was as an infant and 4 was at a year) and pumped once… BUT, once I hit 11ish months, I stopped pumping. I had enough milk to last until she was a year and at one year, we gave her cow’s milk anytime I wasn’t there to nurse her. (I hated pumping with a deep burning passion. Cheers to all you mommas who do it way more than that. I don’t know how you do it.)
So, how long were we able to breastfeed? Charlie and I made it 14.5 months! I think we both would have gone longer if it weren’t for the fact that my supply literally disappeared almost instantly upon me getting pregnant.
It was actually quite sad. We went from nursing 3-4 times per day to pretty much having to stop cold turkey.
Charlotte would go to nurse and would pull off because she wasn’t getting any milk. It was actually really sad.
She would point to my chest, and through sobs say, “dat” and sign “milk.”
Thankfully, this gut-wrenching experience only lasted for a few days until she got used to the bottle.
The only time it ever really came up after those first few days to a week was when we would bring her in our bed for Saturday/Sunday morning snuggles. Again, we started bringing a bottle into bed with her and that seemed to eliminate the tears.
And just like that, we were done.
It’s funny because it’s been a non-issue for over a month now, when all of a sudden the other day, it came up again. I was changing and C happened to be in the room. She pointed at my chest. I knelt down to start my explanation of the female anatomy when she came towards me, mouth open.
I laughed and explained that she used to drink from mommy’s breasts, but not anymore. Soon, mommy would feed her new little brother or sister, just as I had fed her.
She laughed, shook her head “yup” and we moved on.
They’re so smart huh! Nealia still sometimes come up to me to ask for milk from my “boobeeeee” it’s pretty endearing. It’s crazy how your milk just dries right up when pregnant again, it happened to almost all of my friends!
It amazes me every day! And ugh yes. I dried up instantly. It was way too sudden.